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About Terrence Lubin MSS, LSW

I am a white, queer, transgender man. I strive to be compassionate, gentle, and nonjudgmental. I strongly identify as a feminist, and I am sex-positive, polyamory- and kink-informed, and gender-affirming.


As a licensed social worker, I provide therapy under the supervision of a licensed clinical social worker.
Before becoming a social worker, I worked in parent coaching, infant-toddler early 
intervention, elementary education, and early childhood education. I have considerable experience working with parents, families of all kinds, children with developmental delays and disabilities, and autism.


I work with individual adults, children, couples, families, and polycules. I specialize in working with clients who have a history of complex trauma from childhood, from past relationships, or simply from being themselves in a capitalist, racist, homophobic, transphobic, binary-gendered, sexist society.


My training in experiential trauma therapy, including Internal Family Systems (IFS), Psychodrama, and EMDR, allows me to guide you as you depend your understanding of and compassion for yourself. Together, we will create a safe space for you to explore your past and current experiences, appreciate the strengths that have helped you survive, and build the future you choose. My expertise in parent coaching, child development, neurodiversity, and gender identity further enhance my understanding of your unique experience and needs.

I invite curiosity, vulnerability, playfulness, imagination, creativity, spirituality and humor into our work. 

My Specializations

  • Trauma therapy
  • EMDR
  • IFS
  • Parenting support

Who I Work Best With

  • Adults of all ages
  • Families
  • Children Under 12
  • Queer/Trans people
  • Polyamorous and non-monogamous community
  • Kink Community

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